Mary, from Glendale, AZ: 26 March 2008
Tell me about your family. Who do you live with?
Dear Mary: Thank you so much for your questions! However, I am sorry for not responding in time! We have a problem with our internet signal most especially in Eastern Uganda where we live! But at last I have been able to send my response to you. My family is poor. I live with my parents, 3 sisters and 1 brother.”
What is your earliest memory?
“I always remember when I was still young at the age nine years, my step mother over quarreled with mother. Both of them were combative and they ended up in a serious fight. Not only that, but my step mother also got hold of my third born sister and threw her down. The baby got wounds on her head and she became seriously ill up to death point but she was admitted to hospital. After one month, the baby got well again and they got back home.”
What is your typical day like?
“I wake up very early in the morning, wash my face and brush my teeth. There- after, I go to the garden for digging. The garden is very far from home. I have to walk very fast before sunrise. If I get to the garden, I start digging and finish at around a quarter to noon. After digging, I collect firewood and look for food and get back home. At half to 1:00pm, I get break (a cup of tea with leftovers of the previous night). After that, I prepare lunch and wash plates and cups then bath. I eat lunch at around 3:30pm. I prepare supper at around 6:00pm and bath the children (my young sisters and brother). I eat supper at 9:00pm and go to bed.”
Tell me what you have learnt from your literacy classes?
“I have learned to read and write from my literacy classes and even understanding people’s minds (psychology). I also learnt to be clean every time.”
Tell me about your girlfriends, what are their names, what do you talk about?
“My girlfriends have got the following which make me love them:
First and foremost, they can advise me wherever I go wrong, they are good counselors . Second, they are smart in terms of dressing, behaviors and talking. Girlfriends I am having; some are at school, some have dropped out of school due to financial problems in their homes. Their names are:- Susan, Elizabeth, Joan, Esther, Prosy and Eve. As I mentioned down my friends’ names, here we gather and talk about the following:
- Studies.
- Abstaining from sex.
- Avoiding early marriage.
- How we can get in new friends (creation of friends).
- How we can get clean in our brains, body, clothes and learn to value ourselves.
- e talk about how we can obey and respect our parents by helping them with work at home though they are poor.
- We also talk about how we can become God fearing people and encourage ourselves to go to church every Sunday for prayers.”
You are a very outspoken person; do you ever have people complain about what you say?
“No, I have never had people complaining about what I say but they rather wish to hear me talk because they enjoy my speeches.”
What do you think the future holds for you? What do you want to do when you get older?
“What I think of is just to get educated and get a job this is my greatest dream. I also wish to be in a fantastic society where I can be a consultant. Here we can discuss about people’s problems and get solutions for them. In addition to that, I also wish to have a marvelous marriage in the future when I get older and be able to cater for my family. When I get older, I want to look after my parents, friends and relatives, and the community as well especially if I get money. I want to get a job in UgandaCommunitySchool after my studies. I also want to come to America when I get older. (Give me chance) Hope to hear from you again.”
Suzanne, From Glendale, AZ: 26 March 2008
Hi Suzanne, I hope this message finds you in good health! I start by registering my apology with you for not answering your questions in time but the problem is that our internet signal is completely down! We have to travel to Jinja which is 72 Km to send emails!
Do you attend school now?
Yes, I attend school. And my school is the Uganda Community School -Nawantale. I attended the regular school and dropped out due to lack of school fees otherwise I would wish to be professional in any field.
Do you plan to attend the community school when it is ready?
I will attend Community school because I wish to be a professional and get a good job and be able to look after my people.
For how long have you known Mom Kay?
I have heard about Mom Kay since 2004 and known her since she first visited Nawantale in June 2007.
Where did you get the Computer you use to communicate with email?
I got the computer from the Country Office of Uganda Community School Project Inc, which was bought from the funds sent to the Project under the leadership Mom Kay through the Administrative Assistant, Mr. Kawuzi Samson.
Does your village have electricity or do you use a wireless computer?
Our village does not have electricity! Electricity is at Balawoli where we have our country Office. However, even at Balawoli electricity is unreliable because we at times have it for only 4 hours a week! But our gratitude goes to Mom Kay and the entire donors from America who donated money that enabled us to buy a standby generator! I have viewed your photos and they are wonderful! I wish you would come and visit Nawantale too this June when Mom Kay will visit again and compare!!
Waiting for more questions from you! God bless you all. Nandi